What is it?
The product rule read backwards: . It moves a derivative from one factor to the other — the trick behind the weak formulation of differential equations and finite elements.
Formulas
Where it shows up in computing
FEM rewrites as by parts, lowering the smoothness required of .
A standard heuristic of symbolic integrators (LIATE ordering).
Where is it used?
Computing topics reachable from here, through the chain of ideas that leads to them:
This page has the essentials. A fuller treatment (intuition, formal definition, worked example) is on the way.